Be Faithful to Your Wife
5 My son, if you listen closely
to my wisdom and good sense,
2 you will have sound judgment,
and you will always know
the right thing to say.
3 The words of an immoral woman
may be as sweet as honey
and as smooth as olive oil.
4 But all that you really get
from being with her
is bitter poison and pain.
5 If you follow her,
she will lead you down
to the world of the dead.
6 She has missed the path
that leads to life
and doesn’t even know it.
to my wisdom and good sense,
2 you will have sound judgment,
and you will always know
the right thing to say.
3 The words of an immoral woman
may be as sweet as honey
and as smooth as olive oil.
4 But all that you really get
from being with her
is bitter poison and pain.
5 If you follow her,
she will lead you down
to the world of the dead.
6 She has missed the path
that leads to life
and doesn’t even know it.
7 My son, listen to me
and do everything I say.
8 Stay away from a bad woman!
Don’t even go near the door
of her house.
9 You will lose your self-respect
and end up in debt
to some cruel person
for the rest of your life.
10 Strangers will get your money
and everything else
you have worked for.
11 When it’s all over,
your body will waste away,
as you groan 12 and shout,
“I hated advice and correction!
13 I paid no attention
to my teachers,
14 and now I am disgraced
in front of everyone.”
and do everything I say.
8 Stay away from a bad woman!
Don’t even go near the door
of her house.
9 You will lose your self-respect
and end up in debt
to some cruel person
for the rest of your life.
10 Strangers will get your money
and everything else
you have worked for.
11 When it’s all over,
your body will waste away,
as you groan 12 and shout,
“I hated advice and correction!
13 I paid no attention
to my teachers,
14 and now I am disgraced
in front of everyone.”
15 You should be faithful
to your wife,
just as you take water
from your own well.[a]
16 And don’t be like a stream
from which just any woman
may take a drink.
17 Save yourself for your wife
and don’t have sex
with other women.
18 Be happy with the wife
you married
when you were young.
19 She is beautiful and graceful,
just like a deer;
you should be attracted to her
and stay deeply in love.
to your wife,
just as you take water
from your own well.[a]
16 And don’t be like a stream
from which just any woman
may take a drink.
17 Save yourself for your wife
and don’t have sex
with other women.
18 Be happy with the wife
you married
when you were young.
19 She is beautiful and graceful,
just like a deer;
you should be attracted to her
and stay deeply in love.
20 Don’t go crazy over a woman
who is unfaithful
to her own husband!
21 The Lord sees everything,
and he watches us closely.
22 Sinners are trapped and caught
by their own evil deeds.
23 They get lost and die
because of their foolishness
and lack of self-control.
who is unfaithful
to her own husband!
21 The Lord sees everything,
and he watches us closely.
22 Sinners are trapped and caught
by their own evil deeds.
23 They get lost and die
because of their foolishness
and lack of self-control.
(Proverbs 5:1-23)
Remember it takes both of you to make things work. No where does it say in the bible that once ur married you live "Happily Ever After". It takes a lot of work, endurance, patience, understanding, and willingness. Like I have mentioned before If you do not put GOD first in your marriage it is going to fail. You can not make it work on "I Love You's " and Make-up Sex, blunt but true. There is more to a relationship than that. Even If you find that your spouse is cheating on you, pray for them. Do not give up and lose hope in them. God is so strong that he will help see you through this. I know the movie with Kirk Cameron, "Fireproof" is a wonderful christian movie you and your spouse can watch together. You can purchase the "Love Dare" books at your local Lifeway Christian Book Store. Even if you think there is not a chance you feel you can ever love this person again, wait and work on it first before you throw in the towel. Pray about it. Take time to talk to your spouse and try to resolve what can be saved. Seek marriage counseling to help out as well. PUT GOD first then see what a turn around it makes into your relationship in the future. Be patient, but NEVER stop praying for your spouse!
God Bless Your Marriage,
Emily
